Present a clear error message when using an non supported version of node

[mjhenkes]

What would you like?

When a user attempts to use cypress with an older unsupported version of node they are presented with error messages like this:

~/.cache/Cypress/10.1.0/Cypress/resources/app/node_modules/@packages/server/lib/plugins/child/run_plugins.js:40    
  invoke = (eventId, args = []) => {                                                                                                     
         ^                                                          
                                                                                                                                         
SyntaxError: Unexpected token =                                                                                                          
    at new Script (vm.js:79:7)                                      
    at createScript (vm.js:251:10)                                                                                                       
    at Object.runInThisContext (vm.js:303:10)                                                                                            
    at Module._compile (internal/modules/cjs/loader.js:656:28)     
    at Object.Module._extensions..js (internal/modules/cjs/loader.js:699:10)
    at Module.load (internal/modules/cjs/loader.js:598:32)                                                                               
    at tryModuleLoad (internal/modules/cjs/loader.js:537:12)
    at Function.Module._load (internal/modules/cjs/loader.js:529:3) 
    at Module.require (internal/modules/cjs/loader.js:636:17)       
    at require (internal/modules/cjs/helpers.js:20:18)              
    at Object.<anonymous> (~/.cache/Cypress/10.1.0/Cypress/resources/app/node_modules/@packages/server/lib/plugins/child/run_require_async_child.js:6:24)
    at Module._compile (internal/modules/cjs/loader.js:688:30)                                                                           
    at Object.Module._extensions..js (internal/modules/cjs/loader.js:699:10)
    at Module.load (internal/modules/cjs/loader.js:598:32)
    at tryModuleLoad (internal/modules/cjs/loader.js:537:12)                                                                             
    at Function.Module._load (internal/modules/cjs/loader.js:529:3) 

The fix is simple (upgrade node) but the error does not provide user guidance on how to correct it.

Why is this needed?

This issue has been logged several times.
#22332
#22312
#22088

Fixing this issue would allow users to help themselves and reduce support effort.

Other

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